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Julie Angelos is an American living in Italy, a journalist, a writer, and a recently converted blogger. Julie stopped by Website In A Weekend a while back, told a story about a shark, and I immediately knew I had to recruit her as a guest author! Julie writes in an easy, yet intimate style. I hope you enjoy her writing as much as I do.
How I Became Successful Without Even Trying
-by Julie Angelos
If we can all agree that we got here now today thanks to the support of friends and loved ones, I think we can also agree that it is also thanks to people who have motivated us. Especially our teachers.
One of my favorite teachers – to whom I’m grateful for motivation – is Mr. Phil McGreevy. Here’s why. When I started high school, I was told there was an experimental math class taught by Mr. McGreevy where ‘bright’ students were going to be experimented on.
Like lab rats.
I still consider myself to be lucky that I was chosen to be in Mr McGreevy’s class, because the 24 of us had the honor of having the same students with the same teacher for the four years of high school.
Consistency, Relevancy and Going the Extra Mile
Mr. McGreevy was a great teacher for so many reasons but mostly because he took the time to slowly explain everything from the start to the end. I always felt I could ask him at any time any question with out him getting angry.
I loved the way he wrote on the blackboard because he had nice writing.
He was consistent because he did things like draw squares around the answers. He also seemed to choose relevant homework.
Even though I had him for four years I remember one day when he asked who was interested in getting straight “As” – he was offering a Saturday workshop.
Of course, we were then like most of my students now: they’d LOVE to have straight “As.”
Then and now, most students do follow what Mr. McGreevy called the Bell curve; he demonstrated that most students grades are somewhere in the middle. I always wanted to be one of the students with the “As.”
Maybe if I just did that little bit extra it would pay off.
Pay attention; here’s the key
I attended his Saturday class and after doing various exercises and reading he got to the point of the argument.
He said, and listen very carefully,
If…
If…
If…
If you want to get straight As then all you have to do is develop a love for learning.
I was shocked. I was disappointed because I thought he was going to give me the answers to that Friday’s test!
I had to love learning?
Who loves learning? We only went to school because we had to. Love learning… that was the key.
He was right. I don’t care how many times my mother could tell me about the starving children in Africa who didn’t have shoes or school, it still didn’t make me want to study.
I don’t actually remember doing homework. I do remember it was assigned. I’m pretty certain I did it either during another class or before the class started. I’ll have to check with my classmates on that one.
I do agree that the key to learning is to develop a love for learning. I found something even more important for me, and that is the love of teaching.
I since have gone on to become a teacher. I truly love being in front of the kids and seeing them smile. I feel like it is an enormous privilege and honor to have this responsibility. I try to do my best with it.
One day I’m going to retire from teaching and just be an American living in Italy with her family and garden. God willing. In the mean time, I’m going to continue to love learning and teaching.
Writing since she got a crayon in her hand, Julie is currently working as a Special Aids and English teacher at two Middle Schools in Italy. She has lived in Italy for more than 15 years, is married, has two young children and writes JBulie’s Blog.


This fits in really well with some recent discussions about deliberate practice. A love of learning, with a deliberate practice of learning, will be a deadly combo.
.-= Deacon´s last blog ..All Work and No Play makes Deacon Listen to Skate Punk all Night and Make Woodblock Prints =-.
I’m having a lot of trouble figuring out how to roll DP into my work tasking.
That and fact that once it gets around evening time, I’m no good for work at all. Which is exactly when I ought to be working on repetitive exercises.
.-= Dave Doolin´s last blog ..10 Ways to Link to Comments – Keep the discussion rolling! =-.
I’m figuring it out too, though I may run an experiment on this throughout this week. Stay tuned!
.-= Deacon´s last blog ..All Work and No Play makes Deacon Listen to Skate Punk all Night and Make Woodblock Prints =-.
You know it’s amazing how so many people really think that there is a magic fruit or magic lucky tree that makes things happen for certain people.
A good friend of mine recently explained to me how someone else that I thought was a good friend was saying how pissed off he was at me because I wouldn’t tell him how to get rich.
Then he wonders why he’s not “rich”. Beyond stupid thinking in my opinion, anyone that thinks there is magic about it probably will never get it. It’s basic simple math…. hard work, passion, hard work, consistency, passion, hard work, time and about 100 other things. It’s not taught, it’s from within and those that have it don’t really need to try at all.
.-= Extreme John´s last blog ..A Day in the Life of.. Episode 5 [video] =-.
John, I know what you mean.
I’m definitely don’t have the talent for creating wealth, so I’m having to do it the ward way! I’ll get there.
.-= Dave Doolin´s last blog ..Denial of Service, What’s It Like? (Under Attack! 2/16/2010) =-.
Bottom line is that it’s always one step at a time, how many steps. Who knows…
.-= Extreme John´s last blog ..A Day in the Life of.. Episode 5 [video] =-.
One step at a time, in the right direction!
.-= Dave Doolin´s last blog ..How Julie Became a Published Writer (And you can, too) =-.
What the heck is this post about?? Why is it titled “How I Became Successful Without Even Trying”? I feel like you stole 4 to 6 minutes of my life on reading this drivel. I feel the same way teenage Julie felt when told:
“If you want to get straight As then all you have to do is develop a love for learning.”
What relevance does this have to website in a weekend. When you’re going to waste our time on superfluous posts, please add a disclaimer.
thank you
Nelley,
I’d be happy to keep a link to your blog, but the link you gave appears broken. Let me know when you have it fixed, I’ll add it back in.
Julie has two more inspirational articles coming, one on Wednesday, 24 February 2010, and another on 1 March 2010.
I suggest you avoid Website In A Weekend on those days.
Thanks for your attention.
.-= Dave Doolin´s last blog ..Caressing Alien Species, and, a (late) Valentine… Take cover! It’s two Weeks in Review =-.
Nice post, Julie; it’s always inspiring to read about someone who has followed her natural talents, instincts, and passions to arrive at not only success but also, and more importantly, happiness.
.-= Michelle | Bleeding Espresso´s last blog ..A Fresco Painter’s Love Letter to Calabria =-.
Julie’s writing has this sort of ethereal serenity.
.-= Dave Doolin´s last blog ..3 Ways Daily Blog Posting Benefits You (and your readers) =-.
Going the extra mile is what it takes. Especially when the road in life can be filled with potholes.
Mr. MakingUsmile